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Jul 17, 2022

  • "I have no desire for sex. I can't even hold hands or sit close to that person."
  • "Is there something wrong with me if I can't feel sexual anymore?"
  • "I keep comparing myself to the other people my partner cheated with"


It is common and normal for someone to be adversely affected in their sexuality after...

Apr 4, 2022

Sex and Love Addiction afflicts men and women alike. Unfortunately society places the bulk of the attention on the men who struggle, leaving women with the question: What about us? 

Kim Hudson is my guest today, helping me discuss the topic of female sex and love addiction. She is a Certified Sex Addiction therapist...

Mar 26, 2021

  • 6 Asian Americans murdered. Doesn't that make this a hate crime against Asians?
  • The victims were women. Doesn't this make this misogyny?
  • This massacre happened in a year of rising hate crimes against Asians. Doesn't this crime fit the mold?
  • Is the sex addiction statement just another example of White murderers getting...

Apr 24, 2020

Perhaps you have decided to disclose to your partner (or your partner has given you an ultimatum) the whole truth about your secret behaviors, so that your partner knows everything and does not need to keep searching for answers. How do you go about doing it in the most healthy and helpful way possible?


Apr 9, 2020

Dan Drake, the founder and director of Banyan Therapy Group, joins me to talk about COVID19 and its impact on the recovery path of sexual addicts and their traumatized partners. 

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